How do I make her my friend

9 things that make women happy

Admittedly, it is not easy to find a suitable present for your partner. Fortunately, her birthday and Christmas are only once a year. On all other days you can keep your loved one happy in a more uncomplicated way. Because women are more likely to rave about the small, romantic gestures their men make to their best friends than about expensive gifts.

1. Listen to make women happy

It is the simplest and at the same time one of the most important gestures in a happy partnership. Listening is a fine art that women appreciate. Even if you are stressed, take the time to listen carefully to your partner when she has something important to tell you. Put the smartphone aside, look at it and do not interrupt.

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Laughter strengthens love more than sex. Often one results from the other

2. Make a woman laugh

For women, humor is more important in a man than his looks. Hence, it stands to reason that you can make her happy with wit. But be careful: the puns shouldn't be at their expense. Better to poke around with yourself more often. That proves self-irony. Make yourself a fool of yourself in funny Snapchat videos for your loved ones or create your own running gags. Tickling is also allowed, but know your limits, otherwise it will be annoying.

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3. Score with petting

Do you remember the first fiddling games with your partner? Just rewind it and start a journey of discovery in bed like someone who is newly in love. Instead of going straight to the limit, feel your way forward - very slowly and playfully. Women love it when you show them that their partner is still as curious about your body as it was on the first day.

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4. Bring her to climax

Sex is not a competitive sport, an orgasm is not a must. Since many women rarely reach their ecstatic climax, they especially appreciate it when you take the time to really get to know your partner's body. It takes a lot of skill for women to climax. First of all: every healthy woman can reach climax. The ease with which a woman comes to orgasm, however, depends on the age: only from 30, the female potency is at its peak. Relaxation is the most important factor in achieving a female orgasm. So don't spread the hustle and bustle and give the woman the feeling that she has time to do it all night. Direct or indirect, the clitoris is involved in every orgasm. So don't forget to bring your tongue or fingers into play from time to time, if possible in a steady rhythm. When your index finger penetrates, flex it up toward the G-spot. Important: Live yourself out and show your lust. Women are very excited when they notice what they trigger in you.

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Heartfelt notes have a huge effect on women

5. Leave her notes

Small letters keep love. Don't worry, you don't have to write a novel to send her a powerful message! A heart on the mirror, a note on the kitchen table or hidden in their lunch box look like an extremely good piece of chocolate to women. In our digital world you can get a long way with women with analog messages.

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6. Respect their space to make them happy

If you play the spider monkey, you won't make her happy in the long run. In a shared apartment, it is hard to avoid getting on each other's nerves. Then it is very important that everyone has their own place of retreat. You need to get a feel for when your partner wants time alone. You shouldn't have to ask them for space first. Give her the long phone calls with her girlfriend and the time in the bathtub. And in an acute emergency, just go for a walk. By the way: those who make themselves up are more likely to be missed.

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7. Fold down the toilet lid

Yes, you make a woman happy with that too. She doesn't burst into tears of joy if she doesn't have to see the open place any longer, but she registers it. It makes her happy because she feels that you respect her wishes. Incidentally, the use of the toilet brush and the changing of the toilet paper roll also fall into the same category. Just do it when your loved one is important to you.

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8. Ask about the mother-in-law

It's not a rumor. If you get on with your mother-in-law as well as your partner does, you have a better chance of a happy relationship. You don't have to call the lady every week, sometimes an appropriate greeting is enough. But believe it, most women think it's great when their partner cares about their family. If you have your mother-in-law on your side, your loved one is more likely to give you a little kick and you make two women happy at the same time.

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A shivering woman cannot relax. If she is warm, it is more likely to be hot in bed

9. Provide warmth

Slippers, hot water bottle, wool blanket - women would kill to keep their hands and feet warm. Make her feel chubby if you turn up the heating in winter and don't complain when she approaches with icy toes under the covers. It goes without saying that you offer her the jacket when she is cold. The trick of good lovers: an open fireplace, in front of it a super soft carpet. Do we need to say more?

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No matter whether you are just starting out with your loved one or have been a couple for a long time, with our 9 niceties you will make the woman by your side happier in the long term. And best of all, it's not as difficult as you think.

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